Mary Magdalene, Lilith, & the Redeemer (Exploring The Chosen with Youth)

Updated: Aug 14

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Elizabeth Tabish as Lilith/Mary Magdalene in The Chosen. from: https://www.press.thechosen.tv/?pgid=juempv7y-5a3ab0d1-5d70-11e9-a9ff-063f49e9a7e4

Over the past year, we've been exploring how The Chosen adapts biblical characters like Mary Magdalene, Nicodemus, Peter, Andrew, Matthew, Jesus, and the Romans. Meanwhile, in the youth ministry that I lead, I had the chance to view and discuss season one of The Chosen with several high schoolers and found it very fruitful. They were fully engaged by the show on the level of entertainment but also seemed solidify their understanding of important gospel events and figures, as well as the cultural context. As COVID drags on and winter sets in, if you're looking for a good activity to do online with your youth group, you might want to consider doing a series of The Chosen Viewing Parties like this. Below I'll share an outline describing how to do a Viewing Party for The Chosen Episode 1 (I Have Called You by Name).


Warning Youth & Parents Before Viewing The Chosen Episode 1

You may want to warn students beforehand that this episode contains some demonic activity. It's certainly not The Exorcist, but demonic stuff can really freak some people out.


Introduction: What is The Chosen?

Without getting too detailed, I found it helpful to get my youth thinking about what adaptations are and how they work. Explain:

  • The Chosen is a multi-season streaming series that's adapting the four Gospels. Many characters and stories are based on events in the Gospels, but there are also characters and events that the creators made up to tie things together. There are also characters and stories from the Gospels that the creators have left out.

To clarify why the creators would want to add new characters and stories and leave some stories out, you could ask the following questions:

  • What are some other popular adaptations of books into film or television? (ex. LOTR, Harry Potter)

  • In [adaptation], can you think of some characters or stories that were added by the film? Why do you think the creators added them? (for LOTR: Arwen's bigger role, some action scenes. They speak to different audiences & look good on screen)

  • Can you you think of characters or stories that the film left out? Why do you think they were removed? (for LOTR: Tom Bombadil. Enough said.)

I wouldn't take too long discussing these questions. Just long enough to make this point:

  • Adaptations often add, change, and leave out details, because what works in a book isn't always the same as what works in television or film. The Chosen isn't trying to mess with the Bible. The creators make changes in order to adapt the biblical stories to TV.

Erick Avari as Nicodemus in The Chosen. from: https://www.press.thechosen.tv/?pgid=juempv7y-5a3a6c95-5d70-11e9-a9ff-063f49e9a7e4

Preview: Key Characters & Expectations for Episode 1

The Chosen introduces a lot of characters and expects us to just keep up. I found that my youth struggled to sort out the different characters, so you might want to do a quick slide show of the key characters using the character images I've included throughout this post.

Paras Patel as Matthew in The Chosen. from: https://www.press.thechosen.tv/?pgid=juempv7y-5a3b131b-5d70-11e9-a9ff-063f49e9a7e4

I also suggest setting expectations for the first episode. Until Jesus shows up, some youth may find the show a little slow. We turned it into a bit of a game, where one of my youth would constantly ask "Is that Jesus?" every time a new character showed up.


Viewing The Chosen Episode 1

Due to COVID restrictions, my youth group watched The Chosen online using Zoom. You can find episode one free on YouTube here, although there are lots of ads. You can also purchase the DVDs of season 1 on Amazon if you're worried about trying to stream & do Zoom at the same time.

Sahar Isaac as Simon Peter in The Chosen. from: https://www.press.thechosen.tv/?pgid=juempv7y-5a3a8c44-5d70-11e9-a9ff-063f49e9a7e4

While watching the show, I made occasional comments through the chat but I tried to not do too much teaching - I wanted the youth to enjoy The Chosen and not just see it as an elaborate preaching illustration. For the most part, I just clarified who characters were (see my comment above) and occasionally I briefly explained a reference or allusion that was confusing to my youth. And we also just had fun chatting about random stuff, like how Quintus was totally fitting the stereotype of the evil bald guy.


Discussing The Chosen Episode 1

There are a few Bible passages that I thought were helpful to discuss the first episode of The Chosen. The first passage is regarding Mary Magdalene (Lilith):

Soon afterward he went on through cities and villages, proclaiming and bringing the good news of the kingdom of God. And the twelve were with him, and also some women who had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities: Mary, called Magdalene, from whom seven demons had gone out, and Joanna, the wife of Chuza, Herod's household manager, and Susanna, and many others, who provided for them out of their means. -Luke 8:1-3 (ESV)

I would explain:

  • In case you didn't catch it, at the end of The Chosen episode 1 we discover that the character called Lilith for most of the episode is actually named Mary (Magdalene. This passage is one of the few appearances of Mary Magdalene in the Gospels. Episode 1 depicts how she got these demons cast out of her by Jesus.

  • The Gospels never refer to Mary as Lilith. The creators of The Chosen probably chose this name because it is associated with demons in Jewish traditions.

  • By noting how Mary is in the "Red Quarter", The Chosen is implying that she is a prostitute. The Bible never suggests Mary Magdalene was a prostitute. However, some biblical interpreters mistakenly labeled her as such because the story before Luke 8 is about a prostitute being forgiven. Over time, the label stuck and now many adaptations depict her this way.

After sharing that information, you can ask:

  • What stuck out to you about Mary Magdalene's depiction in The Chosen?

  • What do you think Mary's life was like before Jesus showed up?

  • Why do you think The Chosen depicted Mary as a prostitute?

  • Have you seen other examples of how Jesus can show up suddenly and change someone's life in a big way?

Jonathan Roumie as Jesus in The Chosen. from: https://www.press.thechosen.tv/?pgid=juempv7y-5a3ad8e4-5d70-11e9-a9ff-063f49e9a7e4

The second passage is the Scripture that Mary has written down:

But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you. For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior. -Isaiah 43:1-3

I would explain:

  • This passage that Mary's father taught her is from the Book of Isaiah.

  • Many Christians still memorize this passage to remind them of how God is always with us, even in the most difficult trials. It's a great comfort in the midst of the pandemic and other turmoil.

Then you can ask:

  • In the passage, who is it that says, "I have called you by name"? (the Lord)

  • Who is it that says these words in the show? (Jesus)

  • What about Jesus' identity does this hint at? (he is God)

  • Can you think of moments when you may need to be reminded that God is with you?

Noah James as Andrew in The Chosen. from: https://www.press.thechosen.tv/?pgid=juempv7y-5a3af4e9-5d70-11e9-a9ff-063f49e9a7e4

The last passage is an optional bonus for youth that like digging deeper. It hints at where the show is going:

Now on the first day of the week Mary Magdalene came to the tomb early, while it was still dark, and saw that the stone had been taken away from the tomb. So she ran and went to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one whom Jesus loved, and said to them, “They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we do not know where they have laid him.” So Peter went out with the other disciple, and they were going toward the tomb…
But Mary stood weeping outside the tomb, and as she wept she stooped to look into the tomb. And she saw two angels in white, sitting where the body of Jesus had lain, one at the head and one at the feet. They said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping?”
She said to them, “They have taken away my Lord, and I do not know where they have laid him.”
Having said this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing, but she did not know that it was Jesus. Jesus said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you seeking?”
Supposing him to be the gardener, she said to him, “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away.”
Jesus said to her, “Mary.”
She turned and said to him in Aramaic, “Rabboni!” (which means Teacher).
Jesus said to her, “Do not cling to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father; but go to my brothers and say to them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’”
Mary Magdalene went and announced to the disciples, “I have seen the Lord”—and that he had said these things to her. -John 20:1-3, 11-18 (ESV)

I would explain:

  • This passage takes place after Jesus' death and resurrection at the end of the Gospels.

Then you can ask:

  • Initially Mary doesn't recognize Jesus. Did anyone notice what it was that made her recognize him? (he calls her by her name)

  • How does this connect to what happened in episode 1? (he calls her by name at the end when he heals her)

  • Why do you think The Chosen is trying to connect episode 1 to what will happen when Jesus is resurrected?

  • Do you believe Jesus knows you by name? How does that truth encourage you?


There you go! Hopefully these questions will prove helpful as you watch episode 1 of The Chosen with your youth group. If you try it out, please let me know how it goes and if you have any feedback!



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If you liked this post, I've done several other posts on The Chosen that you might want to check out, including explorations of how the show adapts key biblical characters and guides on how to lead your youth group in discussing each episode of The Chosen Seasons 1 & 2. You may also be interested in some of my other content on adaptation and youth ministry.


Adapting Biblical Characters Series

Exploring the Chosen with Youth [Guides for Youth Leaders]


Season 2

Season 1

Posts on the Nature of Adaptation

Youth Ministry and the Arts